So one of the downsides of my old blog was the lack of memes and tagging. Beauty blogging did not embrace that anywhere near as much as the larger blogging world. And while I could think of 100 Beauty-Related Things to post there, I’m really excited to post the basic blogger’s 100 Things About me.
That probably makes me self-centered. Oh well. So here it is:
100 things about me
- I am a city girl
- The suburbs are nice to visit, but I like city living better
- I am an attorney
- But I won’t talk much about work on this blog
- I will talk about some of the challenges facing professional women today, especially professional lawyers
- And career topics interest me, so I will talk about work some
- I like to think I balance my long work hours with mindfulness, beauty and creativity
- But I cannot ever get on board with the term “work-life balance”
- And it’s not just because I have bad workaholic tendencies
- Making my life greener is important to me
- I work in a very conservative work environment
- I wear a suit 5 days a week
- Which really means I wear a pantsuit 5 days a week
- I have yet to wear a skirt suit this year
- I realized a few years ago that even though I like classic clothing and dress conservatively for work, I’m so not preppy
- My weekend style is somewhere around downtown city girl
- But I am so not a hipster
- Not being a hipster comes up a lot when you live in Brooklyn
- Yes, I live in Brooklyn.
- Despite liking my more downtown casual style for weekends, I often wear my version of easy on the weekends: black yoga pants and a black top
- That definitely contributes to my non-hipster label
- Though I also don’t like the term yoga chic
- My favorite purse is the Large Multipocket Hobo from Marc Jacobs
- The one with the classic design – namely black cowhide and silver hardware
- I loved it before a Marc Jacobs bag became a status bag
- Brooklyn is my favorite place on earth to live
- I might like parts of Queens though
- I can’t imagine living in Manhattan
- It’s not because I mind small apartments, noise, city crowds or dirty sidewalks
- But I do mind ridiculous rent amounts that being on the island of Manhattan usually require
- And I will not live more than two blocks from the nearest subway station
- I lived on Avenue B for a couple of months in 2003
- No, I have not seen the musical Avenue Q
- I did love Wicked though – it was much more clever than I expected
- I was several long avenue blocks from the subway stations when I lived on Avenue B
- I will not ever do it again
- Actually I did it again, for another two months in 2006 (in Arlington, VA)– but now I really will not ever do it again
- That was the only time in my life I wished I had a car
- My husband knows the no-more-than-two-blocks-from-the-subway rule for any place we live
- Fortunately he’s ok with it
- We get along very well despite the fact he spent his first 26 years in a land with no subways, and not much public transportation, and far away from city living
- Fortunately he does not want to go back to that
- The whole point of public transportation is that it’s easy to access
- I have nothing against walking – in fact it’s my favorite mode of transportation
- If I have the time, a typical weekend day will usually involve a very long walk – like from Midtown East to Union Square through the East Village to Bleecker Street
- Or walking to Park Slope, and then the length of 7th or 5th Avenue
- In fact, I will routinely walk a couple of miles to get somewhere
- I am obsessed with the Food Network, even though I don’t think it’s putting out as good programming as it used to
- The only city I would live in other than New York is Washington, DC
- But probably only in or near Dupont Circle, where I lived for several years before living in New York
- I do like parts of Arlington, VA though
- The parts that feel like a small city, with sidewalks and restaurants and apartment buildings
- I used to write a blog called Beauty Musings
- Then I wanted to write about things other than beauty products
- So I renamed it Beauty and Occasional Lifestyle Musings
- It was still too constraining
- So this blog was born
- I have stopped writing my old blog but am leaving the content up for internet infinity
- I believe in car-sharing
- As in Zipcar
- I hope to never own a car, but if I did, it would be a hybrid, probably a Prius
- I love to cook
- I love farmer’s markets and specialty markets
- I love beauty products
- And have a strong interest in indie beauty brands
- And a stronger interest in paraben-free skincare
- I read a lot
- I love fragrances and wear a fragrance every day
- And lip balm and tinted moisturizer
- And usually more makeup than that, but the above three are the bare minimum
- I loved Eat, Pray, Love – especially the Eat part (Italy)
- Go read it if you don’t know what I am talking about
- Under the Tuscan Sun was lovely too
- But I never want to leave my life of long hours at work and become an expatriate
- That’s probably because I became an expatriate just shy of my 16th birthday
- That’s when I moved to the U.S. from Switzerland
- To go to Wellesley College
- And 14 years later, I still live in the U.S.
- I wonder if/when one ever stops being an expatriate
- Most people assume I am American because I have assimilated so well and because I speak English with almost no accent
- Even though the Wellesley brochure said the campus was 12 miles from Boston and there was a bus from campus and a commuter rail from the town which immediately adjoined campus, getting into the city always took forever
- Snow did not help
- Despite it taking forever I went into Boston at least once a week to walk around, have some coffee, see a movie, go to the Boston Museum of Fine Arts
- I would also not leave my current life for somewhere where the pace is slower — like Maine
- I am 29, turning 30 October
- No, I am not ok with it
- I still have a couple of months to get ok with it
- People tell me I should be ok with it since I am married
- But I didn’t plan to be married , so I never worried about not being married by age 30
- In fact, I didn’t think I would get married until I met my husband
- Though I didn’t think living together before marriage would work for me
- So basically I assumed I would not find a life partner I wanted to live with
- Clearly, I was very wrong, which is good
- I was 27 when I got married
- Suburban dwellers who say city living is hard are right
- It’s definitely not as comfortable
- And even if you have a big apartment, you have less space and privacy
- But I don’t care, even on the days where life got very hectic very fast and some disgruntled commuter ran into me with her 20 pound purse
- No matter how much stuff is in my purse, it only weighs 5 to 10 pounds most days
- At a bare minimum, my purse always has wallet, blackberry/cell phone, keys, a water bottle and a journal or notebook
General Disclosures & Disclaimers
{ 3 comments… read them below or add one }
I love your new blog, Valerie. The 100 things about you were fun to read. By the way, it is OK to turn 30
I enjoyed reading your 100 things.
Karley — thanks — I am still in denial about turning 30 😀
Shan — I love WCW! Thanks for stopping by 😀